What Do You Think?

What Do You Think?

By Hands 4 Others Founder, Spencer Dusebout   Probably the greatest question of all time.   It builds consensus.   It invites differing points of views.   It includes others.   It allows vulnerability.   It creates...

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Hustling

Hustling

By Hands 4 Others Founder, Spencer Dusebout I’m not talking about conning people, or hurrying to the meeting you are late to. I’m talking about creating value and furthering your business with a sense of urgency. To grow our movements...

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Just Chill Out

Just Chill Out

By Hands 4 Others Program Director, Zak Shellabarger You ever have so much to do that you just decide to do nothing instead? Don’t act like I am the only one. We all get overwhelmed – sometimes towards the point of paralysis. On the...

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Feeling Small

Feeling Small

By H4O Program Director, Zak Shellabarger Humility is a virtue we all appreciate, but lack. I know that there is nothing I admire more in a person than a humble spirit. However, I find myself lacking basic humility in my own life. I definitely...

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Falling In and Out of Love

Falling In and Out of Love

By H4O Program Director, Zak Shellabarger The english language is tricky. We pronounce different words the same that have totally different meanings, we have silent letters that have no business being there, and we have stupid rules that seem to...

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Finish Strong

Finish Strong

By H4O Founder, Spencer Dusebout All-Stars are made by what they do in the first 3 quarters, but superstars are made by what they do in the 4th quarter. Are you a superstar or an all-star?

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People Will Figure it Out

People Will Figure it Out

By H4O Founder, Spencer Dusebout Do you know someone who is extremely manipulative? Someone who says one thing to your face, but something totally different in front of people? At first, the manipulative person might do quite well. They may get...

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Too Busy?

Too Busy?

By H4O Program Director, Zak Shellabarger I work with hundreds of college students. Before I was here at H4O, I was a youth and college pastor. I am not too far removed from college myself, so many of my close friends are also college students or...

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The Angry Email!

The Angry Email!

By H4O Founder, Spencer Dusebout Have you ever received an angry email or text? How did you feel? Did it make things better? Unlikely. It’s far more likely you lost respect for the person sending the message. The best advice I was given was to...

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Know Your Flaws

Know Your Flaws

By H4O Program Director, Zak Shellabarger I’m a newlywed. Just got married last July to a beautiful young lady whom I admire and love. It’s been great. The main thing we hear as newlyweds is that the first year of marriage is the hardest. People...

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Think Before you Speak

Think Before you Speak

By H4O Founder, Spencer Dusebout  “A wise person thinks twice before then say nothing.” Our words and actions matter. More people are paying attention than ever before (thank you social media). You can’t take back the things you say, nor the...

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A New Way to Deal with A-Holes

A New Way to Deal with A-Holes

By H4O Project Director, Zak Shellabarger  I once had a super angry and bitter neighbor. She was awful. Always finding passive aggressive ways to insult me or complain. I’ve also had professors, classmates, and coworkers that just refused to be...

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